Wednesday, July 1, 2009
National Velvet + Polo Match = Kids Off The Couch
National Velvet wears a triple crown in our book - it stars a stunning young Elizabeth Taylor as a 12 year-old who wins England's Grand National Steeplechase, tells the stirring story of how she discovers and trains an "unbreakable horse" and races it disguised as a male jockey, and finally, contains one of the most exciting race sequences ever filmed. Velvet's mother encourages her daughter's dream because as a young woman she won a prize for swimming the English Channel. Although our kids resisted watching a film from 1944, they were moved by the deeply etched relationships between mother and child, Velvet and her trainer Mi (played by Mickey Rooney) and were especially enamored of the scenes between Velvet and "The Pie". Hooves are thundering around polo fields this summer, so we spent a Sunday afternoon watching this arcane sport, in awe of how the players swing their mallets at golf-ball sized balls while galloping across lush green fields. Don't think polo is just a love-poem to a day gone by - it's populated with as many female jockeys as male. Perhaps the girls riding polo ponies today watched Velvet's thrilling ride when they were young. Perhaps the young boys did as well, and the thundering hooves are a paean to this classic and beloved story.
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Wednesday, June 24, 2009
The Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankenweiler + Art in Your City = Kids Off The Couch
Summer is an exciting time for new art, and museums all around the country are welcoming its citizens to punctuate their sun bathing and water-sports regimen with some high culture. Yet, bringing kids to see art can sometimes feel like a chore. A few years ago, we read one of our childhood favorites to the kids, inspiring our best trip to a museum, ever! The book is "From the Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil E Frankweiler," and tells the story of two kids who run away from home and wind up hiding out in New York's Metropolitan Museum of Art. The deliciously taboo notion that kids could stowaway in a museum (without their parents) thrilled our children as much as it thrilled us a generation ago. We were inspired to plan our own stowaway adventure at a local Art Museum. The kids found a bed they could sleep in, a place to stow their overnight bags, and a fountain in which to bathe. We hope that you will follow our lead and start your summer with an off-beat, kid-friendly art adventure -- by pretending to mimic the story's clever premise, we are pretty sure that your kids will discover that a museum is much more fun than they'd thought. Oh -- and, they might fall in love with a piece of art along the way.
Click here for more information about The Hideaways, a television movie starring Isabella Rossellini, based on the beloved E. L. Koenigsberg book.
Thursday, June 18, 2009
The Write Stuff: My Brilliant Career + Writing Workshop = Kids Off the Couch

If your child dreams of being a successful author, or if they simply love to dabble in their journal, they'll appreciate My Brilliant Career, a film that had an impact on us when we were young women. Judy Davis makes her debut as Sybylla Melvyn, an impoverished Australian farm girl determined to fulfill her dream of becoming a great writer, even though it means rejecting a man she loves. Although the film's ending surprised the kids -- our modern romantics couldn't understand why Sybylla spurned a man in order to write -- the character's passion for her craft stirred their creative juices. We jumped on the chance to introduce them to 826, a national, non-profit organization devoted to helping kids become good writers, and took our daughter to a writing workshop hosted by a local art museum. Our nine year-old daughter wrote the first two chapters of a murder mystery which she finished at home a few weekends later. Even if she's not quite ready for a Sybylla-like sacrifice, the 826 workshop helped turn her creative impulses into something we could all read and enjoy.
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Monday, June 15, 2009
MomLogic.com Article "Co-Ed Sleepovers Are the Ultimate Playdate " by Kids Off The Couch Co-Founder Sarah Bowman
Check out the full article at Momlogic.com here
Parents need to remember that kids have their own version of a timetable, too.
Sarah Bowman: Teens take a long time getting to the girlfriend and boyfriend stage -- there is a long run up of IMing, texting, Facebooking, and (eventually) hanging at the movies in groups, which seems to occupy most of 7th and 8th grade. Even then, the negotiation for a couple to go on a first date can take weeks, involving dozens of mini-conferences between the couple and various third-party agents who arrange the setup. If two teens actually start dating, everyone is thrilled -- the kids have achieved a new public status, and parents are generally happy that their kids are developing "real" relationships and not engaging in the dreaded "hooking-up" that the media keeps warning us is rampant.
And even so, sleepovers rule as the social activity of choice in high school. My experience is that both girls and boys leapfrog from one home to another between their weekend activities. No matter how much the girls are thinking and talking about the boys (and vice versa), they love the comfort of lounging in their PJs and staying up until ungodly hours watching "One Tree Hill" for the 90th time. As for boys, it's all about gaming, poker, and reruns of "The Office."
Which is why I was so shocked to hear that my friend's 16-year-old son had been invited to a co-ed sleepover at his girlfriend's house. The girl's mother thought it would be a really cool Sweet Sixteen party concept, and this blithe promotion of a fragile, new relationship jangled my friend's nerves. After several frantic conferences, she and her husband told their son that he would have his normal 11:00 PM curfew. Turns out, their son was relieved to be told he had to sleep in his own bed.
Parenting is still, and always will be, about setting limits. Yes, you can see him tonight; no, you can't go to that party if the parents aren't home. Yes, she can come for dinner; no, you can't spend the night at her Sweet Sixteenth! With each year that my kids grow older, my anxiety about their sexuality decreases (probably in direct relation to their right to privacy)! But maybe that's because the kids have their own version of a timetable, too.
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Kids Off The Couch - Summer Readin': Had Me a Blast
Summer is an ideal time for kids to catch up on leisurely reading. Whether delving into beautifully illustrated picture books with the youngsters, or turning pages pool-side with the big kids, you'll find lots to love on our Summer Reading List.Our faves? Rose Blue's Ron's Big Mission uses colorful images to teach little readers about segregation, and older ones will love laughing at Harper's clumsy protagonist in Uh-Oh Cleo. My One Hundred Adventures reminds us of our latest film obsession, Pixar's luscious Up; and the sci-fi loving middle schooler can explore the dark and mysterious world of Miyuki Miyabe's Brave Story.
PICTURE BOOKS: Ron's Big Mission (Blue, Rose), Pete & Pickles (Breathed, B.), The Flower Man: A Wordless Picture Book (Ludy, Mark), Word Builder (Paul, Ann Whitford), The man Who Lived In A Hollow Tree (Shelby, Anne), Monsoon Afternoon (Sheth. Kashmira), The Story Blanket (Wolff, Ferida).
EARLY READERS: The Secret of the Painted House (Bauer, Marion Dane), Bad Kitty Gets a Bath (Bruel, Nick), Nikki & Deja (English, Karen), Uh-Oh, Cleo (Harper, Jessica), Alvin Ho: Allergic to Girls, School, and Other Scary Things (Look, Lenore)
UPPER ELEMENTARY CHAPTER BOOKS: Millions (Cottrell, Boyce Frank), The Tomorrow Code (Falkner, Brian), The Girl Who Could Fly (VIctoria, Forester), My One Hundred Adventures (Norvath, Polly), The Night Tourist (Marsh, Katherine), Trouble (Schmidt, Gary)
MIDDLE SCHOOL NOVELS: Bunker 10 (Henderson, Jan-Andrew), How To Ditch Your Fairy (Larbalestier, Justine) Brave Story (Miyabe, Miyuki)
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Wednesday, June 3, 2009
Rent Huck Finn + Going Fishing = Kids OFF The Couch
What is more symbolic of summer than a barefoot child and a fishing rod? Even if your kids have never put worms on a hook (or aren't likely to wait patiently for a bite), the kicked-back mood of the angler is contagious now that the end of school is in sight. To get ready for the relaxation and recreation we all crave this time of year, we turned to a 1993 adaptation of Mark Twain's great American novel, The Adventures of Huck Finn, starring Elijah Wood and Courtney B. Vance. The lazy journey of Huck and Jim down the Mississippi is a classic metaphor for a boy's racial coming of age, and our kids caught the film's message about slavery and racism, even though it is presented very subtly in this PG-rated Disney film. Our kids are always happy to cast a line over a river or a bay, and have learned (from experience, believe us) that the process is often - necessarily - more important than the product! Whether you send them out with Dad on Father's Day this year, or pick up a few rods to use on a lazy day sometime later this summer, we can promise that baiting and casting and waiting will bring you peace of mind.Click here for detailed fishing tips and a description of the basic items you'll need to get started.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Kids Off the Couch Family Friendly Films Summer 2009

Summer means three things in our house: school's out, the beach is in, and of course, it's time to savor the studio blockbusters! Here's what you can look forward to in the next three months:
"Up" Will Raise Your Spirits: Pixar's dazzling animated tale debuts this weekend after having opened the Cannes Film Festival to ecstatic reviews. In this tale, a grumpy elderly man ventures into the sky in a hot air balloon to embark on the journey he never experienced when his wife was still alive. With state of the art technology and stunning visuals, Up is a heartfelt love story about living life to the fullest. Whether the film inspires you to visit an air and space museum, plan a grand adventure of your own, or pick up a forgotten hobby, Up is a wonderful reminder that the passions we cultivate in life make us who we are. Up (May 29, PG)
History On The Big Screen? Night at the Museum 2: Battle at the Smithsonian beat out all the competitors at the box office last weekend, and this romp through the hallowed halls of the world's greatest natural history museum offers families a wonderful way to connect to the past. Our kids were captivated by the cutting edge 3D IMAX experience, and we were thrilled to find ourselves in conversations about Amelia Earhart and ancient immortalized pharaohs as we drove home. (In theaters, PG)
Speaking Of Sequels: X Men Origins: Wolverine, Terminator Salvation, and J.J. Abrams' Star Trek represent the big, tent-pole films of the summer and are fun for kids who are old enough to manage the action sequences (all are in theaters and rated PG-13). The proliferation of sequels in the summer line-up made us feel a little nostalgic, so we shared with our kids that Star Trek was our favorite TV show from the 70's, and have stacked our Netflix queue with movies like The Terminator and Galaxy Quest (a fun send up of Trekkies) so we can keep our kid's film history knowledge up-to-date.
And That Was Just May: June and July promise more silver screen stimulae, from wizards -- Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (July 17, PG) -- to dinosaurs Land of the Lost (June 5, PG-13) and Ice Age: Dawn of the Dinosaurs (July 1, PG). Kids with funny bones will line-up to see Eddie Murphy as a man whose daughter's imagination is fueling his success at work Imagine That, (June 12, PG) and inevitably Jerry Bruckheimer's guinea pig commandos will make your kids squeal in G-Force (July 24, PG).
August Looks Classic: Japanese anime master Hayao Miyazaki has a new film about a goldfish princess who yearns to be human, Ponyo, (August 14, not yet rated) and Roberto Rodriquez (Spy Kids) has a new fantasy adventure called Shorts (August 7, PG) about a magical rock that grants wishes. Finally, we're pumped to see the Meryl Streep and Amy Adams pairing about Julia Childs and a young chef who cooked every recipe in her famous cookbook; Julia and Julie (Aug 7, PG-13) is really for adults, but we too need something to look forward to!
Dreaming big and adventuring with gusto are sure to be the messages of this summer, if the buzz on Up is any indication - we hope your summer will be filled with both!
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